Fausto Zuniga

My name is Fausto Zuniga. I am an alcoholic and drug addict who has been sober for nine months and three days. Today, my life is great, but it hasn't always been this way. ​I endured many trials and tribulations to gain the understanding I have now. I grew up in a broken home; my father abandoned me when I was six years old. As a confused young boy, I was verbally and physically abused and forced to grow up quickly. By the age of 11, ​I joined a gang, searching for answers in all the wrong places, living by the motto "fuck it."​ For many years, my core beliefs and priorities were severely misaligned. It took me 40 years to realize this and a lot of hard work to reach where I am today.

I had to surrender, be open-minded, and be willing to change if I wanted another chance at life. I had to change the way I thought, spoke, walked, and reacted to situations. It wasn't easy, but I accepted that my way wasn't good enough. I had to learn to crawl before I could walk, so I took suggestions and got myself a sponsor who guided me through the 12 steps. I conducted a personal inventory, made amends, and, most importantly, learned to forgive myself so I could learn to love myself.

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With proper guidance and support, my life and perspective changed completely. I began to see things differently and understand what I previously could not. I became a student again, eager to learn anything my mind would allow. I learned to listen, pay attention, take criticism, and control my anger. It took a lot of therapy, group sessions, and anger management courses to learn how to manage my feelings and reactions.
 
Today, my life is transformed. I have healthy relationships, healthy boundaries, and a productive routine. I go to work, come home, and rest, and in my free time, I engage in activities that are productive and healthy. I am grateful for the little things in life. My daughter is back in my life, and she allows me to be a father to her. My son is coming around slowly but surely.

I understand the importance of being content, and I have two jobs, both in rehab facilities. I recently obtained my high school diploma and am one of the top students in my support course. I have a supportive team, and I no longer have to look over my shoulder or worry about the police. My life has changed because I didn't give up and pushed myself using the tools and skills I learned at Grandview. I am incredibly grateful for the support I have received, especially from Grandview.

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