Cristian Gonzalez

My life before getting sober was unpredictable. I was dealing with a lot of hurt and sadness, and I didn't know that I was using drugs and alcohol to deal with emotions and trauma. I felt really stuck in my addiction, but I knew that I was capable of more, and I wanted to become the best version of myself. 

I made a comment about getting clean to a relative, who took it upon themselves to research treatment 

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centers in Pasadena; they gave me a list of phone numbers to call when I was ready. I was curious and I called Grandview. I remember that the intake counselor at the time was very spunky and seemed to be in a good mood. I don't know why that stood out to me, but it did, and to this day I still think that the conversation I had with him over the phone made me keep my intake appointment.

Grandview was my introduction into treatment and after 2 relapses, Grandview helped me move forward each time, without judgement. Coming back from a relapse involves acknowledging it, accepting it, understanding triggers and seeking support from family or professionals. It’s about learning from the experience and using it as motivation to maintain sobriety one more day.

Since choosing recovery, my life has changed. I have accomplished many of my life goals. I married my beautiful wife, I have two beautiful kids, and I really don't worry about much these days. I now know how it feels to be genuinely happy. My time is filled with my kids, and I also try to make time for myself, but being with my family is what makes me happiest.

Holding on to my sobriety is extremely important to me. Throughout recovery, developing healthy coping mechanisms, and identifying and avoiding triggers is very important, especially in the beginning of one’s journey. I have a small circle of friends who I value greatly and who I can count on anytime; I know you’re reading this Calvin!

As I move forward in my life and my own recovery journey, I want to continue to be the best version of myself and a good role model to my kids. I was recently promoted to help Grandview develop their new Peer Support Specialist program; I am excited to see where this leads me and how I can share my experience to help others.

My biggest piece of advice to others struggling with addiction is that recovery is a journey, not a destination.

Setbacks are a natural part of the process. Trust the process and don’t give up.

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